Keri
16 November 2013 @ 09:47 pm
All I have ever wanted, for select definitions of "all" and "ever", is a way to watch TCM on my laptop without having to borrow the TV from my parents. And any movie whenever I want, since half the time the ones I want to see air in the middle of the night (the other half of the time, it's when I'm at work).

WELL.

You guys may have heard?

TCM has recently (as in it was announced on November 6 or so) launched WatchTCM - an app and website where you can livestream TCM East and West (3 hour delay for West) OR watch most movies on demand for a week after they air. I think it's a week?

Anyway. It's like HBOGO where you need to already subscribe to the channel through your cable or satellite provider, so I had to beg our log-in credentials off my parents. But I've basically been camped out with it all week watching screwballs and musicals from the 1930s and 1940s.

It's even better because all November, Matthew Broderick is hosting "Screwball Classics" every Friday night. 3-6 screwball comedies and musicals every Friday night you guys! It's like a DREAM COME TRUE except I don't have time to watch them all. :(

Also, the app is missing a few features, like a way to mark movies as being favorites or wishlist to buy later. And I don't know if marking them To Watch means that they'll show up again automatically on my watchlist the next time they air (TCM has a TON of movies in their library, but they still repeat some films, like The Awful Truth plays every few months which is good because it's in my top ten, though Theodora Goes Wild is also up there after seeing it yesterday and I don't think I'd been aware of it before, even though it's Irene Dunne and I love her).

But it's great! and wonderful!

And for those of you NaNoWriMoers, they've got a film called Blonde Inspiration which is available until the 19th and it's about this writer who isn't very successful at selling his stories, but things happen and he gets a break, but he has to write an entire novel in one day for a magazine. Maybe it's actually a novella? but the point is: it's hilarious and fun and the gags are amazing and y'all should watch it because it's topical.
 
 
Keri
26 September 2013 @ 10:13 pm
I stopped taking the beta blocker prescribed to keep my heartrate down recently. I just don't feel that great when I'm on it, and when I stop taking it, I feel SO much better mentally, even if I'm suffering the POTS symptoms more severely (at least, the ones related to my heart - the others never go away, they just aren't as obvious :P).

Yesterday, though, was AMAZING. I felt so good, didn't find myself guzzling water like a dehydrated camel, wasn't running out of breath talking to someone while standing up, &c. The only thing I did differently, that I can think of, is that I wore tights. That's it. I know that they recommend those constricting hose for people with severe POTS, but didn't think it would make much of a difference for me, since I really do have a milder version. WELL. All afternoon, especially after I've been standing up for a bit, I've felt this weird feeling in my ankles and feet. I don't know how to describe it, but it's like I'm suddenly hyper aware of the blood flow and pooling, and then starting to move again properly when I sit or lie down. Right now, my feet feel positively burning as I lie down after getting up to pee.

So maybe I need to embrace the official start of fall and wear tights every day.

Also, this water thing. You guys, if I'm so dehydrated that I've guzzled 72oz of water today and still felt like I needed more, why am i peeing so much. I mean, obviously I'm drinking water, so I have to pee. But if it's a dehydration thing, shouldn't I be retaining the stuff instead of having to piss like a racehorse every 90 minutes? I swear I've peed SO many times today. And it was never colorless like you'd expect with that much water, not compared to how it looks when I drink only 30oz in a single day mixed in with cokes and stuff.

Maybe I need to start making it a point to add salt to my diet again.
 
 
Keri

There was an anti-war demonstration today, and I happened to be nearby to see a bit of it going on and also overhear some acquaintances being kind of racist about it. I broke in and said, "You know, you really can't talk about Syrian-Americans like that. Besides, you don't even know it, but my family is part-Syrian - my grandmother's older siblings were all born in Syria."
 

They shouldn't have been saying such racist, prejudiced shit even if my family doesn't have Syrian ancestry, but let them ponder on the fact that they're saying nasty stuff about a person they actually know and see regularly. You know what I mean?

Of course, I have a large, blended family. My Syrian grandmother is actually my step-parent's mom, but as I've been close to that family since I was a child, and they were close friends with my mom's parents back in the day, I never use the "step" prefix, and it doesn't occur to me to do so unless I'm talking about my "dads" or something. I often call my second parents "smom" or "sdad".

Anyway, being proud of my grandmother and loving her dearly, I pulled up her photo on my phone and showed it off. I said how their statements about the demonstrators and other Syrian-Americans were completely unfounded and unfair, and saying that they're all Islamic terrorists is plain wrong. My grandmother has siblings and cousins who continue to live in the area, and they are all Catholic! But they still have a lot of ties to Syria, like folkloric stuff (mmm, Sito's kibbeh is amazeballs, kinda literally?).


I showed another picture of my family, including all of us siblings and our parents, and this is my favorite part: I was told that seeing the pictures and knowing about my grandmother, my acquaintance finally understood why I have a "foreign" look - I take after my grandmother and the Syrian/Arabic genes are strong in me. Of the five of us siblings, I'm the one who most resembles her. (!!!!!)

Grandaddy is the blue-eyed All-American type, by the way. Of my stepsiblings, one is more stereotypical Middle Eastern in appearance while the other was the pale china doll type until puberty, when blond hair turned brown. So I sort of laughed and said "maybe!" even though I know good and well that at least in our family, the "Arabic Race" thing is bullshit, and the fact that I have brown-black hair, thick lashes, and green eyes is more due to the British Isles influence of the Purdy line (my Nanny's mother's maiden name - I take after Nanny and Granny strongly).


As a reminder: Sito and Grandaddy
Me and my Nanny (Two peas in a pod in this photo, especially!)
Five siblings (one of the photos I showed)
My sisters
 
 
Keri
19 November 2012 @ 11:06 pm
I suppose I should post these recipes in case you guys need to go to the grocery store tomorrow because you HAVE to have them for Thursday or Friday or something.

Brie and Blackberry WontonsCollapse )

Strawberry BruschettaCollapse )

Thai Turkey MeatballsCollapse )

Blueberry Jam (Savory!)Collapse )

Okay, so these recipes are kind of awkward but I tried to simplify them and make them read better. You can probably do all sorts of substitutions - these were primarily meant to be like YAY DRISCOLL'S BERRIES. Also, you can swap out the berries for all of these. I think a raspberry or blackberry jam would be best with the turkey meatballs, and I'd do blueberry wontons and blackberry bruschetta, but that's just me.

This was at the culinary demonstration at the Food & Wine Festival, and they mentioned a bunch of things like NEVER rinse your berries until you're ready to use them, because rinsing is bad (actually, it removes the natural coatings, and so they spoil faster). Also, if you have a bunch of fresh herbs, you can put them into an ice cube tray with a bit of water and freeze them. Then let the ice cube melt and you'll have fresh herbs. There was a similar tip for dried-out bread, but using the microwave.

I actually liked the meatball, didn't think it was too spicy at all, which surprised me, because there's a lot of garlic and ginger and curry paste in there, which are three things I'm not usually crazy about. I think the jam is a good pairing with it. You could probably do this with leftover turkey and just shorten the cookin time.
 
 
Keri
08 October 2012 @ 06:18 pm
Just got out of the shower after spending most of the day in bed, because I feel shitty.

My stepmom loaned me her finger pulse monitor yesterday, so I've been checking on my heart rate every now and then. Right now, it's about 115 beats per minute, but looks like it might be calming a bit now that I'm sitting down. When I was lying down most of the day, it hovered between 88bpm and 96bpm. Last night, while I was driving home from my dad's house, my pulse was mostly around 106bpm - except when I yawned (because I was exhausted) - it would rocket to 116bpm for a few seconds, then settle down again. I thought that was interesting. But when I got out of the car and walked into the house, it shot up to 138bpm and didn't budge until I lay down, at which point it gradually slowed. I've known that getting out of the car or standing up from my desk made me lose my breath a bit, but I didn't realize it correlated to such a jump in my heart rate - until I got the finger monitor, I had to wait until I could sit a moment to check. (I stuck it on before getting out of the car, because I was curious if the loss of breath was related. It was.)

I guess I have an excuse to feel shitty, but I do kind of wonder why I suddenly started to feel so much worse earlier this week (about 5-6 days ago now) compared to the weeks before, when I did have the increased heart rate that I attributed to anxiety, but wasn't losing my breath or feeling so exhausted. If it's related to the steroid injection, it seems a little late coming?

Anyway, I wanted to give an update:

I called my doctors on Thursday and they said "yeah, that's not normal, please come in ASAP" so I visited my GP on Friday afternoon. Thankfully my co-workers were extremely accommodating and helpful when it came to me basically taking a long lunch (I was gone exactly 1.5hours!). They've all been really nice about my complaining, which I hate that I do, but I'm not sure how to change. I've just always got back trouble or something, it seems. Anyway, my doc checked my pulse of course and after sitting quietly in the office for 40minutes or so, it was around 94-96bpm - which is high, but lower than it was at work - and so they gave me an EKG. The EKG showed a steady pulse - no skips or odd flutters - just somewhat fast for someone my age who hasn't been exerting herself at all. I should be around 60bpm, so that's clearly not so great. BUT the EKG also showed that the electrical whatsit wasn't right. There were several spots where it wasn't conducting properly, and they did it twice just to be sure.

So I got an "ASAP" order for the cardiologist to check me out and see why my heart is going crazy. My blood pressure is perfectly normal and in a healthy range, but BP isn't necessarily tied to heart rate.

My cardio appointment is for the 22nd at 3pm, which is the soonest available, but that's 2 weeks out! And meanwhile, I'm losing my breath if I try to have a conversation with anyone (or to leave a voicemail message) or if I'm eating or doing ANYTHING while walking - and sometimes just walking will do it. Now that I think of it, last Saturday when I went to the book signing and stuff I walked to the Landing and back to Chamblin's, several blocks, without trouble from my heart or anything (just a bit of back pain and hip stiffness). And I did my exercises at the PT on Monday without much more trouble than usual. In fact, I didn't notice that I had to catch my breath as much as usual (although the exercises were pretty low-key, they were mostly weight training I guess? using my own body weight, which did require some exertion). So this all definitely ramped up on Tuesday and Wednesday morning. I'll need to put that in my daily diary, which I've been neglecting.

My headaches are still coming and going - it seems to be either caffeine-withdrawal related, or I'm due for an upgrade in my glasses. I think I'm mostly getting them when I've been reading the computer screen or my Kindle a lot, especially when I haven't been wearing my glasses. And my nausea is definitely related to being unable to catch my breath while I'm eating, so slowing down and not eating as much has helped that.

okay, checked my pulse again. The little thingy says it's around 102-103 now, which is pretty standard for when I'm sitting up, so that's good. I want to watch a movie, but it's football night. We don't even have the movies I want to watch, though ("The Emperor's New Groove", "Hercules", "Bringing Up Baby", that other early Cary Grant/Katharine Hepburn one I'm forgetting).
 
 
Keri
03 October 2012 @ 09:39 pm
I feel so horrible right now. I have this massive headache that's been coming and going for days, usually showing up in the evening. I thought maybe it was a lack-of-caffeine kind of headache, because I noticed it first after a day without any cokes, but then tea didn't help, and i've been having it anyway now that I'm back to drinking cokes again. I thought maybe it was dehydration, but it's occurred even after drinking a full bottle of water or more. It's located in the middle of my forehead now, but sometimes is just around my right eye.

And this is in addition to the fact that my heartrate is still really elevated. It was at 110 resting this morning. I usually hang out around 100 when using my exercise bike, going up to 110 or 120 when I'm working especially hard, but it slows down again soon.

At first I thought it was just anxiety, but it's been going on for over a week, maybe a week and a half now. Last monday, my BP was 108/68, even though my heartrate was elevated, so I just assumed it was related to me being at the gyn's office.

I'm not sure what else I'm feeling might be related to that - like the vague nausea or maybe also the headache? probably the occasional loss of breath when standing up is related. but I didn't really start paying attention until yesterday.

I'm going to call my doctor in the morning, but that's in the morning (I coudn't call this morning because his phone number and the paperwork about my epidural steroid injection was all at home, and I didn't think it was that vital to leave work for it), and right now I just feel shitty and don't know what to do to make it better. I've taken an Aleve and had some chocolate and i'm working on another bottle of water. I had a glass of wine, too, because doesn't alcohol slow your heartrate? I don't think it worked, or it was very minor. At an rate, my mom didn't think it'd be a problem.
 
 
Keri
25 September 2012 @ 10:42 pm
USPS.com says my new inks should be arriving tomorrow or Thursday!!! They just reached the sorting center downtown this afternoon/evening coming out of San Diego, so depending on how early they get to my local PO and get sorted for the delivery truck, I might just be lucky enough to see them tomorrow. :) The only thing is that the package has to arrive by 7 or 8am, I forget which, to get on the delivery truck that departs around 8:30/8:45pm and gets to our block around noon. So most likely it will be Thursday, but I can be surprised!

These are the inks I ordered, after much debate:


Twilight Blue
- because I love teal inks and this one has lovely shading according to the tests/examples I saw at the FountainPenNetwork forums. I want to use it for general use at work, so it's a nice, dark teal. plus it's got more saturation than the cartridges i had been using, which sometimes tended towards grey.
- check out the FPGeeks' Inkcyclopedia for this ink


Green/Black
- again, dark to be suitable for use at work, but still nicely saturated with color. i chose this because it's so dark but has the wonderful green tints. on my screen, this swatch from Diamine is a little darker/more blue than some of the examples at FPN


Eclipse
- and here is a nice black - except that it has great purply and blue bits and is a little bit metallic at times. the swatch is definitely more blue than the purple that all the examples on FPN showed. i wanted to have a pen filled with black for forms and such that the green or teal wouldn't be appropriate for, but i didn't want a true black, so there's this one.

These are the colors on my list to get soon:


Grape
- this is a lovely purple with reddish and grey tones, but nice and dark. it's saturated, but not super bright, which is something i like - so many of the more true, bright purples aren't colors i like to write with regularly these days (and I already have a bunch of Waterman purple cartridges and Diamine Imperial Purple cartridges if I want a bright shade - imperial purple is here)


Syrah
- I was thinking of "merlot brown", but after looking at comparison swatches and such, I think I'm going to go with Syrah, instead - it's a bit more saturated and deeper, less of a washed out brownish red. i don't want a crimson or bloodred ink, but i like this with the pink tones to it


J. Herbin's Larmes de Cassis
- when I'm ready for a sliiiightly more whimsical ink, I think this will be the one - I love how it's a purply reddish pink, nice and deep (this swatch seems to be a bit pale)

I love colors! paints and pastels and inks. when I was in high school, i had an enormous collection of Gelly Roll pens - over 35, I believe? almost every single color available (there were a few I lost or didn't bother with because they were useless for my purposes - i got a pack of the lightning ones, for example, but didn't get further additions to that line, because the silver element made a huge mess in my notebooks and was hard to read).

Here is my wishlist on JetPens.com, where you can see some of the pens and inks I like (keep in mind that I've already purchased several items on the page - I maintain it for repurchasing purposes): http://www.jetpens.com/wishlist?wish_list_id=267ea085d9b2081d

My most recent pen which I ADORE is the Sailor Clear Candy, which I bought in metallic pink. This one:


It writes like a dream, especially with the Sailor black ink cartridge that came with it - and it was only $16.50! I bought pink Clear Candy ink cartridges to replace the black, but it's likely going to be in charge of the Eclipse ink once I use up the pink, or if the pink turns out to be unsuitable for my notes at work. FWIW I don't really care to spend more than $30 on a pen, and it's hard to convince myself to spend more than $20. At least for now...

If you'd like to try a fountain pen and don't want to invest too much, I've found that the Platinum Preppy is rather nice. I'm not entirely fond of the color of the ink in the blue-black one (it tends to be a little grey for me - I like my inks to be highly saturated, though!), but it's only $3.30 on JetPens and is easy to use. Plus, it looks pretty cool!



If you click the image, it will take you to the fine point blue-black version. I like fine points best, but a medium point is also available (I'd say in the Preppy, an F is similar to a .50mm Pilot G-2 gel pen, while an M is similar to the standard sized G-2 - .75mm? 1mm? but the size isn't exact). If you like it, once the cartridge runs out, you can then convert the pen to use bottled ink via eyedropper, which is pretty nice - bottled ink is loads more economical than cartridges, and there's less plastic waste.
 
 
Keri
25 September 2012 @ 05:16 pm
So it's been ages, again, since I posted to LJ. This time it's because those fucking birth control pills were not right for me and my depression was pretty awful. Is pretty awful? I don't know. I just couldn't be bothered to do a lot of shit. I haven't participated much on LibraryThing in a few months, and my reading has slown down a lot, because I just can't muster the interest. But other interests are obsessively overwhelming me - fountain pens and Sorcerors of the Magic Kingdom. Those were partly retail indulgence (when I get depressed, I like to buy things and go on trips) and partly something Different and easy to obsess about, which gets my mind off of the other shit.

I ended up quitting the Ortho TriCyclen Lo after the second month. While it was better than the first month, it was still worse than nothing at all most of the time, and I didn't want to try another month to see if it'd get better. I mean, the WORST had cleared up, but it still wasn't good? And in the last 3 weeks, I've actually had periods where I'm feeling All Right (like today), even if other times (like all of last week and the week before, thanks to Suicide Prevention Day or whatever the fuck it was that trigged me like whoa) were bad. I mean, I screwed up at work in a huge, huge way 2 weeks ago because I just didn't care enough to try to figure out a better solution, and then the next week I was walking downtown and just burst into tears (my boss had scolded me, and I think that primed me for it, but I was dealing with it until randomly looking at a person walking by and then sobs? and also when I was at Disney last Tuesday, I kept starting to burst into tears for no discernable reason, especially when it was something kind of happy and nice happening?).

I think maaaybe I need to get a new job that doesn't stress me out for stupid shit (I don't like being responsible for revenue, it is really hard on me), and also pays me enough to be able to afford my own apartment. I don't even want a big place, just something with a separate bedroom from the living/kitchen space, and close enough to Sash's house that we can hang out as much as we want. But that's still kind of more expensive than I can afford right now. And I also worry that it's just my depression that is talking?

Anyway. I went to the gynocologist today for my annual, but it's been like 8 years since my last one. I was pleasantly surprised that my doctor remembers me! Even if she doesn't remember the details, she said that she seemed to remember seeing me more recently than 8 years ago, but time does fly... She's a really nice lady, though. Gave me a new script for a bc to help with the depression spikes that accompany my period, and I'm glad that I can trust that she'll immediately help fix things if it's not right, unlike my GP who is lovely but isn't as familiar with bc so has more of a wait-and-see approach.

I also went shopping today! I needed some new clothes that are stylish and look good and also FIT because I've gained weight since last year, and a lot of the clothes I bought last year don't fit comfortably at work. I bought a pair of wine-colored trousers and teal skinny leg chinos. The wine-colored ones are for dressier days, the teal ones are for more casual days (fridays, weekends). Next month, I'm going to budget some money to buy new sweaters - something chunky? and some chunky cardigans that go with both pairs of pants and my maroon pencil skirt. I love having richly colored pants/skirts. It's hard with sweaters, though, because I'm allergic to wool, and if I want something chunky or with an interesting neckline/collar, I tend to be out of luck. But all my sweaters from previous years are starting to look worn and faded, and they don't really match my new pants. (I also have a few shoes marked in the September Aerosoles catalogue that I'm dying for - lace-up boots, oxfords with heels, that kind of thing, but I'm going to have to find alternate brands with cheaper prices...)

I want to buy a few dresses that are more wintery, but I'm kind of despairing on that one. I prefer my dresses to have defined waistlines, because I am such an hourglass shape and sheaths and clingy knits tend to fit loosely up top and too snug around my hips, and then I feel frumpy. But I also want sleeves, and my broad shoulders tend to mean I have to go sleevless or capsleeves if I want the dress to fit everywhere else. Maybe I'll have to order from eshakti.com or whatever the site is... But when I get a dress, I need more textured and colorful tights.

I seem to suck at fashion, though? and I already have so many clothes that I don't really need more. But I feel so frumpy and gross when I wear a lot of it lately, so I don't know.



Anyway, another topic: I'm planning to go to France for about 10 days next September. I need someone to travel with me - I'm happy to go on my own, but I don't think that's wise. I'm having a hard time finding someone who's able to save the money and can get the time off work, though. I'm trying to save $100-$200/month, and whatever shortage I have, to open a credit card to cover the rest, and work on paying it off afterwards. (I COULD save for 2 years instead of 1, but my inability to plan for the future means it needs to be sooner rather than later.) I'm planning to run the number to find the cheapest way to get to Strasbourg - flying into Germany or Italy or France or wherever and taking a train in, possibly - and then stay there for the week-and-some, and rent a car for a couple excursions to Colmar, to Riquewhir, &c. I don't really plan to go to Paris unless we fly into/out of there, because I mostly prefer Strasbourg - I like how close it is to the Vosges mountains and to Germany and also there's the nostalgia factor of my study abroad trip. I'm expecting the trip to cost between $2000 and $3000, depending on the costs of flights and lodging (which can be less expensive if it's two people sharing a room, don't forget). thus, if I sock away $100-200/12 months, I should be able to save up for most of the cost.

Books - I need to post about some books I've been reading lately. My mom gave me her Kindle keyboard (3rd gen, I think), and I've been reading Guns, Germs, and Steel on it. I found some lesbian pulp fiction I'd downloaded ages ago for shits & giggles and was reading one of the books, but got distracted and never finished it. I'll have to do so and then post about it - it was surprisingly less porny than I expected and also a bit more sensitive of a portrayal, though it's still pretty stereotyped and very 1960s (when it was written, afaict).

Fountain pens - I've been quietly obsessed for several years, but a few months ago (a year ago?), it got rekindled, and over the summer, I managed to find the huge collecting community (mostly guys it seems, which is interesting but I'm not sure why). I also found jetpens.com to accompany xfountainpens.com on my list of Great Affordable FP Shops Online, and also FPGeeks.com, which have an "Inkcyclopedia" series that I love. It's something about watching Stephen write and seeing the inks...I'm starting to want to learn a better script so that I can also write fancy, but as it is, different elements are invading my style (it's already heavily influenced by the Palmer method, crossed with printing). (I got Sash hooked - she's always been interested in stationery, and then I gave her a cheap $3 pen, and she's all into it. She said her boyfriend was totally jealous, so I might get him one for winter holidays.)

I don't know what else I want to share with everyone. I haven't been in a mood to journal or anything for a while. I was keeping up notes about my mood & pain status in my daily planner, but I haven't even been up to that. It's just too much effort. Twitter is easy, though, I guess.
 
 
Keri
06 August 2012 @ 01:35 am
All about my back problems this last weekCollapse )

anyway. lots of whining and complaining because i'm tired of feeling useless and in pain. i can't even clean my room with all these days i have off from work!

so lemme leave a tip re: something that has bothered me all week:

when someone has some kind of chronic injury or pain and it flares up or whatever, don't ask "what did you do (to yourself)?". that's blaming them for something that they can't control and probably has nothing to do with what they did. if you're trying to show sympathy/concern, instead ask "what happened?" or "how long has it been like this?" or "is there anything i can do to help?" - because, seriously, implying that it's my fault that i'm in pain, when i do everything i can NOT to hurt? is pretty cruel. it's especially frustrating to me, this week, because i'd finally had a good night's sleep and felt not-depressed when it happened, and i can't bear the thought that any time I want to sleep well, I'm going to end up with a crooked back. (I sleep best on my stomach, my doctor said "oh, you know you shouldn't sleep on your stomach if you have back problems" i replied "yeah, tell that to me when i'm dead asleep and i usually fall asleep on my side, like i'm 'supposed to' do")

PS: lololol. a lot of people have suggested over the years that i get a hot tub or put a heating pad on when my back gets like this, and i always say "no, when i'm stiff/hurting, heat makes it worse". so on thursday, i did get into the tub. and it felt a bit less bad while i was in the water (even while i was mentally going 'ew ew ew gross gross gross' because i have this Thing about hottubs/baths/swimming pools). but as soon as i got out, i could tell that there was exactly 0 improvement, if not the exact opposite. so.
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Keri
16 July 2012 @ 10:38 pm
I never write here anymore. Oh well.

3 days is probably too soon for the Ortho-Tricyclin to start working, right? because it's DEFINITELY not working right now. I went to the doc last Monday to see about getting a fix for the fact that when my period comes around, I can't sleep enough and get way more depressed than usual, even while on the Savella, and also cramps are intolerable. She put me on a variable dose BC, which I didn't react well too as a pre-teen, but whatevs, and told me to get to a gyno for a PAP and blood work and maybe more detailed BC testing. Anyway, she also said not to start it until after my period began, and then I asked the pharmacist if there was any reason to delay if I wasn't taking it to prevent pregnancy? and she said no, but it was already TOO LATE because it started that same afternoon.

Anyway, as of 3pm this afternoon, I'd been cramping/uncomfortable for about 60 hours, which is basically not on. I have to remember next month to schedule myself a day off the weekend I'm due to start. (I'm doing the schedule now. Also, I'm working 5 days a week now - no more Saturdays off unless I take a vacation day. Didn't get a raise, though.)

Also, I've been dealing with heightened anxiety since Tuesday or Wednesday, i forget which? but it's definitely not the normal kind, and since Friday, I've felt my mental state slip-sliding down, and now I'm definitely in the depression zone. And I hate this, because I know that it doesn't have to be this way! I don't want to go to work tomorrow, because I'm feeling like a failure at my job, even though I know that I JUST got my annual review and my boss was like "you are awesome, keep it up, also here are more responsibilities".

So, yeah.

(Added to this I hate the way I look right now, i've gained 10 pounds since this time last year and all the clothes I bought last summer and fall when I needed more daily stuff for work don't fit well, and I can't afford to buy a new work wardrobe, and I hate how frumpy my old stuff from 2010 looks...I did buy a new skirt and dress, but I can't wear them *every* day, and a lot of my clothes that do fit moderately well are completely inappropriate for the heat/humidity of mid-summer. Trying to figure out what I will wear tomorrow that's easy to change into something for physical therapy, when I only have 30 minutes to get from work to the facility, and it's making me want to cry even more. Maybe I'll just wear my grey wool slacks and not change out of them, since they're fairly loose and easy to move in. I only have black long-sleeve shirts to wear with them, though!)